The Zen Of Kink

Party Rules

 

1: Everything MUST be completely consensual. Please Remember that “No means no.”

 

2: The following activities are NOT permitted.

 

• Anything involving anyone under the age of 18

• Anything that involves another species of animal other than “Human”

 

3: Restrictions on play

 

Bodily fluid play is NOT permitted indoors. Go outside and clean up your mess afterwards. 

 

Breath play is permitted but the person receiving must stay conscious so as not to conflict with consent. I understand that consensual non-consent dynamics may occur within your relationship. In the case in which someone may go unconscious, I don't care about those dynamics. All play MUST stop immediately for medical reasons.

 

Gun play is NOT permitted. The use of or the threat of guns on a person in our community will automatically get you banned. You may carry your weapon for our safety, but it is NOT a toy. Keep it holstered. 

 

Fire play is permitted. Please make sure you have a safe area with plenty of space to play and equipment to handle burns or any other accidents that could occur.

 

Sex is not permitted. Go home if you want to have sex. My group is NOT a sex club nor is it a place for random hookups.

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4: Safe words

 

The Universal safe word is RED. When used by anyone in a scene, all participants shall IMMEDIATELY STOP. If a safe word is ignored, you will be bounced out of the facility and banned from the Zen of Kink. The severity of your actions may land you in jail for domestic violence, as I will not hesitate to involve our friendly boys in blue. NO means NO. Don't get too pushy.

 

5: Social Volume

 

We love for people to talk, but if you are in a play area, please keep the noise down to a minimum. We can't hear safe words if the noise is too loud.

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This post titled Appalachian Style Play Parties (by Joseff) is perfect, it explains this concept very well.  https://fetlife.com/users/182496/posts/712494)

6: Drugs and Alcohol

 

Alcohol is permitted, but do NOT "drink and kink". Play first, drink later. Please drink responsibly. All illegal drugs are not permitted anywhere near our premises. 

 

 

7: Photos

 

If taking pictures or video, please ask all persons to be in the shot that it is OK. Also please ask all members of the pictures or videos if it is OK to distribute these photos. If this rule is broken, you will automatically be dismissed from the party.

 

8: Smoking

 

Smoking is not permitted indoors and is to be done away from the front door outside the venue.

 

9: Offenders

 

If you are a sex offender, you are NOT welcome. NO EXCEPTIONS. 

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10: Privacy

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Have you ever heard the term "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas"? Yep, same rules apply. Keep quiet about us. Remember, you are coming to my private home. I don't allow strangers, so don't bring a guest I have not met.

 

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